Sad verdict: 7 Non-obvious Things that Give out Low Self-esteem (check your wardrobe)

We understand what secrets of your character can reveal a familiar outfit for you.

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Fashion has a huge power — self-expression. Thanks to clothes, you can tell the world about your preferences, tastes and even religion. Our images are a direct reflection of the inner world and lifestyle. According to the outfit, you can understand whether a shy person is determined, self-confident or withdrawn.

We often look at stars like Madonna or Miley Cyrus, whose self-confidence is in full swing. This is noticeable both in their behavior and in their bold outfits. They feel comfortable in their body and do not hesitate to bare their legs, tighten their waist and emphasize their breasts. Their arsenal includes leather, translucent fabrics, sequins and high—heeled shoes. Such outfits help them feel even more relaxed and confident, and therefore convey their point of view to others.

In such an outfit, you will definitely not meet a person with low self-esteem who is trying to hide from prying eyes behind baggy things. But not everything is so obvious and banal, because there are many self-confident people who adore oversize. Today we are looking into what things and elements give out self-doubt.

Extreme oversize

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Of course, the desire to get lost in voluminous things that would hide any body flaws is inherent in people with low self-esteem. Such people spend 90 percent of their time in oversize things, and combining several elements in this style in one image at once. For example, if Hailey Bieber loves wide trousers or jackets from a man’s shoulder, she will definitely add crop tops or bras to them. An insecure person will dress in robes from head to toe. And she will also wear similar images every day, making an exception, except perhaps only on holidays.

Black and gray palette

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The attraction to gloomy colors and dull shades is another sure sign of low self—esteem. But here, too, it is important to observe the whole picture. For example, if this is a spectacular leather total bow with high-heeled shoes, stylish hairstyle and beautiful makeup, then this says just the opposite. But if we combine the first point with the second, then we will get an insecure citizen. In his wardrobe — longsleeves, hoodies, sweatpants and

Sports items

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Yes, cotton suits, sneakers, hoodies and hoodies are important components of stylish looks for the last couple of seasons. However, Karl Lagerfeld once correctly said: “Sweatpants are a sign of defeat. If you have acquired them, it means that you have finally lost control of your own life.” And this is typical for many people with low self-esteem who have so spat on their style and wardrobe that they are not ready to get out of the cocoon of comfort and coziness.

They wear tracksuits and trousers even to work or a meeting with friends, but they do not choose cotton sets that are currently relevant, but rather outdated things from their wardrobe, in which it is not worth showing up even at the cottage or at home.

Lack of accessories and jewelry

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When you are not confident in yourself, you do not want to attract too much attention to your person. “And suddenly others will think something wrong about the clothes and accessories I have chosen,” they think. Therefore, such people tend to simple and basic things, as well as to the almost complete absence of jewelry and accessories. Their image should be clear — to merge with the crowd, and not stand out from it. Therefore, insecure people often completely abandon jewelry because they do not know which ones to choose and how to wear them. And among their accessories there are only basic bags and hats that are always relevant and created without any regard for modern trends.

A mix of prints and bright shades

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An unnaturally catchy image with a bunch of different-grade drawings and colors, rather, indicates that a person is trying to disguise his self-doubt behind an active image. Psychologists call this technique compensation. So, with the help of bright and flashy clothes, a person tries to compensate for his low self-esteem, and also builds a barrier between the frightening outside world and the vulnerable inside. Many people thus want to distract the attention of others from their problems and mask their self-doubt with imaginary courage in choosing outfits and a mix of things. The implausible attraction to overloaded images is easy to recognize — things practically do not combine with each other, they look garish and strange.

Excess jewelry

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As in the case of excessive enthusiasm for prints, too much jewelry and accessories can also symbolize compensation. Putting on several rings, bracelets and chains is easier and less expensive than buying new flashy things. But if you illiterate a scarf and sunglasses in one bow, put on several large necklaces at once, which practically do not harmonize with each other — you only make yourself worse by giving out your low self-esteem.

Sneakers

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Here, of course, it is worth paying attention to the model. If it’s the popular Yeezy or Balenciaga, then it’s more a signal that a person is following trends and wants to match modern trends. But if this is an old and worn-out model, bought not so much for aesthetic reasons as for comfort, wearability and versatility, then this may just indicate that a person does not pay attention to fashion and his appearance, but tries to blend in with the crowd, speeding up the subway in comfortable sneakers, which are more than one year old.

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